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Venus in Gemini

Venus in Gemini people will try to win over the object of their affection with witty conversation, displaying just how much they “know”, and demonstrating their diverse interests. These lovers are playful, some might even call them a tease. They are hard to pin down, and they resist relationships that promise to become too “comfortable”.  Even those with their Sun in Taurus or Cancer, whose outward demeanour may suggest some reserve and caution, will want their relationships to be stimulating and full of conversation with Venus in Gemini. Venus in Gemini men and women don’t want to be tied or bogged down in their relationships. They appreciate light-heartedness in love. Although they are willing to talk (perhaps endlessly) about the relationship, you may get the feeling that they gloss over some of the deeper issues. In love, their tastes change often, and it can be hard to know what to expect from one day to the next (or, sometimes, from one hour to the next!). Pleasing Venus in Gemini involves supporting their need for fun and variety, showing interest in their brainpower and knowledge, and giving them space for friends and activities outside of the relationship. Let them know just how much fun you have with them. Try not to get overly miffed by Venus in Gemini’s changeable, fickle ways. Remember that time spent with your lover will be exciting and invigorating.

Venus in Gemini

At the worst, Venus in Gemini can be fantasist, flirtatious, superficial and inconsistent, especially when a feminine sign comes in association. Gemini is ruled by Mercury, which shares a friendly relationship with Venus. When the ‘air’ of Gemini meets the ‘water’ of Venus, all that remains is a ‘bubbly’ personality. People with Venus in Gemini are childlike, and at the worst, childish. They want to make the most of this life, and enjoy it in every possible sense. These people are open, direct, friendly, sociable, impatient and restless. They can be fickle and shallow too. They always remain in an excited mood, quite like a child but they also lack a sense of maturity needed to sustain life without much damage. Their attitude towards romance is also childlike. They are too optimistic in love and approach every new relationship with new hopes and expectations. There is an undying need to speak out what’s troubling them in their heart. These natives cannot contain their feelings. They especially need friends and an active social life, so they don’t burst their mind thinking of the real and imaginary problems in their married life. Venus in Gemini gives a strong penchant for arts too. In fact, the native can be skilful in writing and poetry as well.

Venus in Gemini sometimes get involved in relationships solely out of curiosity. They are intellectually curious about people, and are eternally fascinated by social interactions. Although they usually enjoy flirting, they may remain somewhat aloof when it comes to matters of the heart. Curiosity motivates them on romantic and social levels. “Variety is the spice of life” is their attitude in love, in social relationships, and with personal possessions. They are sociable, communicative, and interested. They can be animated and fun but may also keep their distance on an emotional level. Attractions often begin with words, as they tend to bond more readily on a mental level. The shadow side of Venus in Gemini is fickleness. Venus in Gemini people spend money on books, information, social events. They are somewhat fickle when it comes to their attachment to objects and personal possessions, and they seek variety in the things that they own. Some enjoy the thought that can go behind making purchases, weighing various options. They are attracted to art that is expressive, verbal and social in tone, light, and happy.

A person with Venus in Gemini can quickly fall in love, or we can say that such a person has the efficient flirting ability. There is a lot of romance and excitement in them. They also have a lot of tendencies to have fun with their partner and enjoy good moments with them. They may run away from boring relationships. They like to be in a relationship with a similar person like them, and once they give their heart to someone, then they become crazy about them. Sometimes they may appear careless towards love, but this does not happen continually because they experience a lot of love an attachment towards their partners. The fickleness of their behaviour can upset others, but these people know and understand the words trust very well and try their best to maintain loyalty in their relationships. The person is talkative, inquisitive and believes in making friends quickly. They don't like to be too formal. They like to speak their mind out and, among their friends, Venus in Gemini are the ones with cheerful and charismatic personalities. They are also socially ahead and do not shy away from socializing with people, they also like to go to parties and have different exciting adventures. Venus in Gemini natives stand out from the crowd, and in marital relationships, they always try to maintain the consistency of love and affection.

Venus in Gemini are drawn to lovers who are optimistic, humorous, and who love life

Venus in Gemini are clever, sharp-witted, and bright. They are likely to be drawn to intelligence and riveting, stimulating conversation, and this will rank highly on their list of desirables in a partner. These natives may be sapiosexual, someone attracted to the mind rather than physical appearances. But at the very least, their mind need to be stimulated to fall in love and nourish the relationship. People born with Venus in Gemini are social butterflies. Flitting from one exciting situation to the next, your openness to experience and explore blesses you with more opportunities than other people. You believe in living life lightly, and you’re willing to take things as they come. When it comes to love, your head comes first and your heart second. You like to spend time getting to know someone new and learning about who they are instead of jumping head first into a passionate love affair without a second thought. Before you make a commitment, or, with Venus in Gemini, IF you ever make a commitment, you’ll weigh your options heavily to make sure a relationship is worth your time and energy. You’re drawn to lovers who are optimistic, humorous, and who love life. The more unexpected a person or a relationship is, the more interested you are. Boredom is your own version of hell, and if a relationship reaches a dreary point, you’ll cut your losses and search for something that will bring more excitement to your life.

Those born with Venus in Gemini often feel two sides to themselves, a light side that the world sees and a dark side that no one sees. But it's not about fighting between the two, feeling like you have to be one or the other, all the time. Instead, realize that you have been gifted with a multifaceted personality. You are not this or that, you are this AND that. Light and darkness combine within you to create a complete, unique and inspired being. The main traits of Venus in Gemini are: cheerful, open-minded, playful, communicative, social, exploratory, diverse, stimulating and optimistic. Very courteous and friendly, pleasant, although when Venus is in a bad aspect it gives lightness and inconstancy.

 

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