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Venus in Aries

Venus in Aries lovers are firecrackers, to say the least. Rihanna is one, so that pretty much sums it up! They know who they are and where they stand—super hot! They’re fiercely independent and want others to be too. They come in hot and heavy, but can struggle to keep the fire burning due to boredom. Their passion and leader-of-the-pack vibes bring out the energy in others. They can’t stand to let others, especially their lovers, but that doesn’t mean they won’t let you take over the wheel once in a while (if they really, really like you). The Venus in Aries natives do not like to take things too seriously, so be sure to call on their playful side to keep things light and fun. If something happens, they are going to take care of it. Plus traits: When competing with another person, even if someone else is a potential partner, the Venus in Aries zodiac sign person is positive. Their fun, flirting ways are amazing and independent, often allowing their love to learn more about them, but they are not going to wait long.

Venus in Aries loves to talk and show their unlimited charisma. Whether they are looking for a serious long-term commitment, they will put the same enthusiasm and goal into your stuff. They do not like to play mental games unless they feel that it is the best way for the other person to win. Minus Traits: Some people may find that overly tough, and there may not be a faint-hearted relationship with Venus in Aries. They are active, spontaneous, and always look for a new adventure. This native hates slowing down anything because they fear a stagnant life too much. For these natives, the worst thing is to be too convenient or complacent. They require constant stimulation and excitement. The Aries traits expect their partners to entertain them because of this and to be prepared for whatever they want to do. It can be exhausting to keep up with them, so they need somebody with great endurance and emotions. This equation involves taking action on its many impulses, which covers most of its finances for this native. They tend to overload something they want, whether practical or not because they value pleasure over responsibility. Try not to control the spending habits of these natives because they will always lose that argument. If it becomes a problem, try to establish a savings account to compete. That’s the only way you’d change how you’re spending your money.

Venus in Aries

Venus in Aries in a contradictory Venus. It’s a Venus that, when things feel too deep, tries to draw away and make light of the moment. It’s a Venus that, when things feel too skimmed through, tries to push everyone’s heads underwater. Venus in Aries is that annoying urge to push your best friend, who happens to be very scared of the water, straight into the pool. It’s sometimes the mischievousness of doing all kinds of things in an attempt to get someone who won’t look your way to trip over their own two feet just to get a second glance at you. It’s often the urge to flee when too many people expect to come out and do this thing right now. This is a Venus that doesn’t like to be told what to do. You simply cannot tell an Aries Venus what to do. Loving a Venus in Aries is about loving someone who can’t be told what to do. You see, Venus in Aries may like to win but it doesn’t like to play another person’s game. Sometimes, it’s surprising how uncompetitive Venus in Aries is. This is because this native drops out when it senses that it has no stake in the game. When this native chooses what it pays attention to, you don’t get to choose for it, and they will only do things if there is some meaning at stake. This is a Venus that hunts. However, Venus in Aries, being a Venus in detriment, is often a Venus that doesn’t know what the hell it is doing. A good hunter lays in wait, observes, and moves at the right moment. When an individual with this Venus is in pursuit behaves rather like a chad. It comes full force, revealing all of its colours, sits down in front of you and says, “I like you SO much. Don’t you like me too?” There’s no games with a Venus in Aries. There’s barely any flirting. There’s no lengthy pursuit. There’s point A and point B. Aries Venus cares about the distance between these two points and why they have not made you fall in love with them yet. Sometimes, loving a person with Venus in this position is about loving adrenaline and fear. Being pursued by a Venus in Aries and pursuing as a Venus in Aries is, quite simply, very scary. There are no illusions and allusions. There is only a direct and candid expression of vulnerability. This is terrifying.

What Venus in Aries wants most of all is not a weight to their scale, someone to balance their talents and flaws, or someone who murmurs over their wounds or even someone who waits for them. These natives want most of all is simply a partner in crime. This isn’t a Venus that is concerned about doing good and making sure that they are seen doing good. This is a Venus that moves with action first. Venus in Aries wouldn’t be caught dead talking about their good works. They acts and then wonders what it all means later. They need to be able to move and thinking about things before moving means wasting valuable motivation and time. This is why this native is so hopelessly attracted to mischievousness. Embodying mischievousness gives them the permission that they need to move at the pace they need. Venus in Aries doesn’t care about how they are seen. This is the Venus with the rumpled collar, with the bed head, and with the mismatched socks, sloppily dressed with shoes always worse for wear. Even as artists, this individual is anti-aesthetic. They have an instinctive derision towards aesthetics. They sense that aesthetics are a kind of bureaucracy that they have no time or patience for. Just get the thing done and how it looks is how it looks. Who gives a shit about anything that is more than what is absolutely instrumental? You’ll notice that Venus in Aries doesn’t usually have a lot of stuff.

Venus in Aries are assertive in love matters

When in love, Venus in Aries wants it hard. They don’t like to share. They’ll deal with sharing a little bit as long as there’s something that they have just for themselves. When they like you, they want you all for themselves. They want to keep you and they want to eat you. Desire, for these natives, is violently physical. They don’t care for endlessly discussing it or romanticizing it. Remember, Venus in Aries is anti-romance often. They care that desire is carnal and that it’s there and they want to do something about it. Loving them is about loving the body. It’s about loving what the body does, all of its instantaneous expressions. It’s about loving the way the body cries, unbuckles, and relents when you’re least expecting it. It’s about loving a body uncontrolled. And, when this individual doesn’t like someone or something, they really can’t be moved otherwise. They’ll change their mind surely and often because this is a cardinal sign but they won’t do it if too many people ask them to. If they like to win, they always hate being won over. The most frustrating thing about Venus in Aries is that they’ll sometimes ask you what you like, only to inform you quite plainly that they prefer something different. This doesn’t disturb them. They don’t mind having different preferences. Rather, it stimulates them. Loving a native with Venus in this position is about loving difference. It’s about loving acceptance because this native believes that acceptance is important not when you are the same but when you are different. When an individual with Venus in this position loves you, they expect you to love yourself as hard and relentlessly as possible. That’s the expectation of Venus in Aries. 

Those born with Venus in Aries tend to be assertive, passionate and demanding lovers. Forget playing games, on-off dalliances and slow burn flirtations – they want it all and they want it now! And they’re never afraid to tell it like it is when it comes to affairs of the heart. Yep, Venus in Aries is a force to be reckoned with – a march-on-over-and-deliver-the-chat-up-line pro with a seriously impressive success rate. Love at first sight? Into it! Daring bedroom antics? Where do they sign up? Suddenly over it and into someone new? Yep, that too! People are often drawn to this direct and straightforward approach so Venus in Aries is never short of admirers but it takes someone special to tie them down. Their best chance of relationship success is likely to follow a long period of playing the field but when they finally commit they’re in it to win it. Venus in Aries just wants to be adored.

Venus in Aries people flirt by being up-front, direct, and even daring. They try to win you over by expressing how enterprising and independent they are. Their style of expressing love can be maddeningly “me”-centered, but the right person for them will find this approach charming. People get turned on by Venus in Aries’ aura of innocent charm, even when they are being childish and impatient. These natives, either men or women, behave in a childlike, fun-loving manner in love. They are turned on by energy and activity. Turn-offs include a relationship that is considered stuffy or too “mature”, vagueness, and beating around the bush. In love, they are hopelessly addicted to the conquest. In order for a relationship to remain fresh and new for them, they require plenty of stimulation. Pleasing Venus in Aries involves fuelling their need for action. Be direct, open, and honest with them they won’t much like game-playing or evasiveness, unless it is in the complete spirit of fun. Feed their need for spontaneity, and appreciate their playfulness. Understand their desire for the relationship to remain young and fresh. Aries likes to take the lead in love, even if their Sun Sign is gentle Pisces, and the advise is to let them, at least most of the time. Indulge them their many whims, and understand that they thrive on competition, even when they’re competing with you.

 

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