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Venus conjunction Mars

Venus conjunction Mars profoundly affects relationships, but your intense passions can influence all areas of life. Your strong desire for love and affection means that love relationships take up much of your time. Your sex drive and need for intimate relationships can sometimes cause friction within relationships. Your level of intensity may be too much for a partner to cope with, and people with Venus conjunct Mars often have many marriages or affairs. Finding a new partner comes easy, thanks to your high sex appeal and magnetic attractiveness. Flirting would be most enjoyable, but you must remain conscious of the effect on an existing partner to maintain a long-term relationship. The ability to attract other people means you should be popular in social settings and with the public in general. This public appeal often comes helpful in your career and is one reason you can expect to be financially well off or at least comfortable. Another asset in your career is your intense goal-directed energy. A strong work ethic and creative passion can lead to significant accomplishments and wide recognition for your achievements. Venus conjunction Mars suggest that how you relate to the opposite sex depends significantly on your relationships with the parent of the opposite sex when young.

Venus conjunction Mars

Born with Venus conjunction Mars indicates that your relationship with your parents has a significant impact on your views towards the opposite sex and marriage. This conjunction typically brings together active and passive energies, fostering sensitivity and love. However, if both planets are heavily stressed, challenges may arise. Constructive drive and a fortunate touch in financial matters are common expressions of this aspect, particularly in relating to the public. The influence of Venus conjunction Mars varies depending on the zodiac sign, offering valuable insights into your earliest interactions with the opposite sex, including relationships with parents, siblings, and peers. You possess intense emotions, which make it difficult for you to approach relationships casually. Every gesture holds significance for you, especially in matters of sex and romance. If you encounter difficulties in your love life, it may be due to being too forceful or overwhelming. While you desire an all-consuming, long-lasting relationship, you also maintain a flirtatious streak, even when already committed. Despite the uniting nature of the conjunction and the representation of male and female principles through Venus and Mars, it does not guarantee a lasting marriage. Individuals with this aspect yearn for enduring relationships yet experience their fair share of conflicts and separations. However, compared to the square and opposition, there is often a hesitancy to initiate the first break. Jealousy, whether justified or not, tends to be the primary cause of discord. If you have Venus and Mars in the same sign but not conjunct, similar dynamics may apply, although you will exhibit less assertiveness. Reflect on how your relationship with your parents has influenced your attitudes towards love and marriage. How can you cultivate a healthy balance between intensity and lightness in your relationships?

For natives of Venus conjunction Mars, the blending of the feminine and masculine energies within is a natural process, although other aspects to the conjunction will tell the whole story as to how this is done. These people possess personal magnetism in spades. They live and breathe romantic/sexual relationships. It is generally easy for them to form relationships, unless the conjunction is severely afflicted. They ooze sexuality, and they are generally quite impulsive with regards to entering new relationships. Relationships are not only important to them, they require a fair amount of excitement, adventure, and passion in their pairings in order to feel alive and vital. Being born with Venus conjunction Mars gives you strong desires to form partnerships and friendships, and a charismatic ability to attract people who share your interests. As you’re interested in discovering new ways of relating, you are curious about exploring different forms of relationship and relational partners. You are capable of being in a committed relationship. But even within a monogamous relationship, it will be important for you to have a partner who is not controlling and understands your need for freedom in forming relationships with a variety of people. You thrive within collaborative relationships, as you are able to feed off the energy of others and also enjoy stimulating the creativity of others. You can be ambitious and competitive. But you do well as part of a team dynamic in which you focus on the success of the group, rather than merely your own individual achievement.

You can feel your emotions, urges, and wants intensely as if you are being burned from the inside by the intensity of your desires. Venus conjunction Mars can have extremely strong or even obsessive passions, these passions can be anything from goals, things, activities, or people. Not getting what or who you want in the exact instant you desire it can feel maddening and drive you to become impatient and impulsive, sometimes even angry or belligerent. You can be very passionate and experience intense sexual desires, lust, or attraction to people you are in love with or attracted to. You can be a person who is exceptionally seductive or flirtatious. You can be lusty and desire having sexual encounters. When you’re able to focus and channel your energy and passions, you have the amazing ability to get things done. As you mature, it will become necessary for you to find ways to assert yourself in emotionally healthy ways while still conveying the passion or intense emotions you are experiencing, especially in order to get the romantic relationships you desire. You can occasionally lose control of your anger and temper and raise your voice, get impatient and irritated, become curt or brusque in your responses, even become physically agitated or violent. You can be especially impatient when it comes to getting what you want and fulfilling your desires. You can be very demanding or feel passionately compelled to getting the romantic or sexual attention you desire and want. You can sometimes jump from romantic/sexual partner to partner because you want your needs fulfilled immediately. Some of your great lessons in life is to: Learn how to more effectively show your love, express your red hot, intense and passionate emotions and desires in emotionally healthy ways, align all of your actions in life with your energy (learn how to not waste your energy on the wrong pursuits). Finding better, easier, and smoother ways to get things accomplished without having to limit the fulfilment of your goals. It is likely important for you to be perceived as attractive or good looking so you will likely make an effort to dress up, take care when wearing your attire, and enhance your physical attractiveness.

Venus conjunction Mars can sometimes jump from romantic/sexual partner to partner because you want your needs fulfilled immediately

With Venus conjunction Mars, there is generally a pleasing blend of self-assertion and cooperation. This comprises some of their charm, in that they generally know how to assert themselves without stepping on others’ toes. Some men with this aspect may be too dominating in romantic situations, and might gain a reputation for being “macho”. This is not always the case, however. For the most part, these people are quite direct about what they want in a relationship, and they are quite passionate when it comes to going about getting what they want. It can be a challenge maintaining perspective when it comes to relationships. These people are generally highly creative and are bent on finding outlets for their creativity. Their vitality and warm energy is something that can be felt by others, as if it lies just below the surface. You can spend your energy, time, and money on clothing and finding outfits that make you look good, that emphasizes your body, or makes you standout. You can sometimes have an issue with being a shopaholic especially when it comes to spending money on clothing, shoes, haircare and haircuts, getting your beard trimmed, beauty products and makeup, skincare products or treatments, jewellery, perfume, etc. - essentially anything that improves your physical appearance or makes you more attractive. You could have a great sense of fashion or style or at least have a good understanding of what styles and clothing will make you look good and enhance your assets and physical appearance.

Under the influence of Venus conjunction Mars, you can crave being in relationships and enjoying yourself physically and sexually with your romantic partners.     Having fulfilling sex and physical contact is likely very important for you in relationships. Touching and being physically in contact with the person you desire or are in love with is very important for you and can drive you. Your main "love language" aka the type of interactions with your loved ones that make you feel most loved and emotionally fulfilled is likely Physical Touch. Example: you might crave hugs, kisses, comforting pats, back rubs, hold hands, sexual contact and acts, etc. This aspect can manifest in you either entering a loyal, committed relationship from a very early age or you could be a bit of a late bloomer who does not have a solid, committed relationship until you are older. Despite being desirable and attractive, you can find yourself having trouble or difficulties maintaining your romantic relationship long term - you can get into stormy or tumultuous relationships that can start passionately but suddenly end just as passionately. Despite being able to get attention from the opposite sex, being considered attractive by others, and/or being able to hook up/have one night stands with many people, you might have trouble or struggle with starting a long term romantic relationship or turning your flirtatious or sexual encounters into a committed, loyal relationship. Sometimes this can translate to you being a late bloomer and thus getting into a traditional, committed relationship later than some of your peers. There can be some issues with cheating and infidelity in your romantic relationships, either you can have issues with cheating on your romantic partners or you may be drawn to romantic partners who cheat on you or have affairs. People with Venus conjunction Mars can have a tendency to "monkey-branch" from one relationship to the next. “A monkey-brancher is mostly concerned with hopping from relationship to relationship. They're still looking for the next ‘romantic high,’” Monkey-branching is when someone “sets up” a new relationship even though you're already in one. So before completely ending the first relationship (which might be failing and will inevitably lead to a break up anyways), the monkey brancher romantically pursues or has their eyes set on another romantic interest. You can be overly aggressive in romance and when pursuing the object of your desires - try to learn how to be assertive rather than aggressive as it can be an emotionally healthier way for you to pursue others and a more positive experience for those who are pursued. At times, you can lack tact in how you communicate in your relationships - you might blurt things out, take actions without considering the effect it will have on your loved ones, express your feelings in insensitive or intense ways that can hurt, offend, or confuse others, etc. You likely have a warm and passionate nature when you are in love or when you are with those you love. Venus conjunction Mars aspect puts you at risk of becoming a sex addict or developing sexual addiction, especially if you are a man. To be a sex addict goes beyond simply being hypersexual or enjoying having a lot of sex. To be a sex addict means that your sexual compulsions and sexual thoughts consume and control you to the point that it distresses you/others and/or puts your own safety/ health and the safety/health of others in danger. However, note that becoming a sex addict does NOT apply to everyone with a natal Venus conjunction Mars aspect. For someone with natal Venus conjunction Mars to develop sexual addiction, it will likely involve a combination of various factors and circumstances such as: being a victim of childhood sexual abuse or sexual trauma, early exposure to inappropriate sexual behaviours/acts, exposure to sexual content, sexual acts, and sexuality at an age when the victim is too young and psychologically underdeveloped to properly process or cope in emotionally/mentally healthy and mature ways with their experiences. Venus conjunction Mars indicates that you could be a victim of sexual abuse and/or sexual assault, sexual coercion, having a family history of sexual abuse and sexual addiction, having neglectful, uninvolved, or abusive parents and families and having an addictive personality.

 

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