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Mars transit opposition Venus

With Mars transit opposition Venus, you're prone to want what you want now, and you're likely not too happy about having to play nice to get it. In fact, playing nice is a game you're not willing to play much more. Yet, there is a difference between boldly going for what you want and "niceties." Being nice can be a way to be inauthentic about what you want in order to keep the peace. Yet, perhaps what you want most is to let some kind of savage beast out that has been denied too long. One expression of this beast might be sexual, but it could also manifest through your appetite or anything else that incites you to ecstasy and pleasure. Perhaps you'd do better to reframe "the beast" as a possibly cuddly aspect of yourself that's become fierce because you've caged it up with too much denial and efforts to keep the peace. You can be more forthright now, but you don't have to shatter the peace.

Mars transit opposition Venus is a very potent aphrodesiac. However, there is likely to be discord between you and your partner. There is often a power component in sexuality at this time where it is a sort of bargaining chip. This combination often brings love/hate relationships into your life. If you can't find an area of compromise between you are your partner, there is likely to be a lot of irritability, sexual power games, and issues of domination and submission, etc. This can be a creative time for you. In business and finance, be especially careful about bargains that look too good to be true. Business relationships formed at this time tend to not last long as the advantages are usually lopsided.

Mars transit opposition Venus

The Mars transit opposition Venus stimulates desire, and intensifies your wants, whether sexual or artistic. It can create a situation in your relationship where what pleases one does not please the other, since personal satisfaction is in competition with the desire to satisfy the other, especially if differences already exist. If not, then this is a time when disagreements can happen. It is important to realize how what satisfies one may not satisfy others. In some cases, this transit can give you the strength and energy to dare to declare your love to another person, or do some artistic activity which had a tendency to be left for another day. The vitality to satisfy desires and wants are at a maximum at this time.

During a Mars transit opposition Venus, emotions run high and actions taken make you aware of what pleases you and what doesn't. Sometimes your peace and happiness is disturbed, and you may dislike any kind of confrontation. Certain individuals arouse strong feelings within you, although you may find the intensity difficult to handle. Still, you benefit from the passion; it makes you feel alive. Allowing yourself to feel deeply opens you to the joy that is within you. Challenges you might face when Mars transit opposition Venus are: being quick to indulge, friction in co-operation, assertive partner(s), treats to harmony and aggressive appeal.

Mars transit opposition Venus makes you more intense with other people and may try to exert power over them

When Mars transit opposition Venus sexual power games are very likely. Your attempts at asserting dominance over your partner or others is likely to lead to conflict. You may be very strongly attracted to someone yet unable to compromise with them, particularly in the sexual arena. A love-hate relationship may develop as a result. If you have sex during this transit, it may be overly rough and insensitive. In social situations others see you as too cocky. Competition and conflict with others are common. During Mars transit opposition Venus, your sexual relations now may lack the sensitivity and care they normally have. You may feel a bit more selfish about your needs, and less empathetic to those of others. If you are inclined to be a demanding lover, you may even use sex as a manipulation tactic. What’s happening is that it is a time for asserting yourself as an individual, but there is a risk that the energy can become a bit too selfish and sexually focused. So stay aware of these currents within you, and you should be able to steer clear of their worst manifestations.
If your partner does not understand your current emotional drives, you may end with a lot of relationship conflict to deal with. To avoid this, or just deal with it, communicate your needs clearly. During a Mars transit opposition Venus, try to find a balance between your desires and the feelings of others. However, be sure to not suppress your self-assertive energy, as you may become irritable and frustrated, which could, in turn, lead to anger and further insensitivity. It is a good time to try and be artistic and creative. If you are unable to express yourself sexually, it is a good time for doing something that both combines physical exertion and fulfils your cravings for beauty, such as gardening, sculpture or going to a concert.

You have more problems dealing with business associates of the opposite sex during this time, which is usually caused by underlying sexual tension. This may be due to problems in your own personal relationships but may also involve feeling attracted to others and not being able to express it openly. Be very careful of acting on these feelings, as they’ll often lead to inappropriate liaisons that won’t help the future of the relationship, especially if they’re involved in your business. You’re more intense with other people and may try to exert power over them, which they won’t easily tolerate. You may also be on the receiving end of someone else’s inappropriate advances. You’re more impatient with people in general and need to refine your social skills during this time. You’re also more creatively stimulated and will prefer physical forms of expression, such as performance art or projects that involve using tools or physical strength. 

 

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